Belonging is vital. You crave it like a drug as a human ‘animal’. Tribe is how we survived as cave dwellers and your brain is still hard wired to belonging. Trouble is, we get it confused with ‘status’. And money. Why is that a TERRIBLE idea? Because. Wealth is more than income But status comes … Read more
🤨It’s so tempting to copy someone else. Doesn’t work in this market anymore. Why? Because your brain is beginning to evolve. ❓Notice how the bro marketing is slowly beginning to fade? The screaming of ‘look how much money I’ve made’ is dying down? ✨Newsflash. It’s because your clever brain is curious. It starts to ask … Read more
🛑Stop. Pause. Because: When you’re racing and driving and pushing… your masculine is in full dopamine reward mode, and you start to NEED the hit. You crave it like the hefty drug it is. And if you don’t get it through your ‘results’? You start doom scrolling🤯😣 That endless pull to refresh, that little meerkat … Read more
It took this mahoosive cheese truck to sloooow me down. When it dramatically and implacably blocks your vitesse, you suddenly have zero choice. I realised as I gazed around at the avenues of trees and the fields and fields of sunflowers of southern France, how rarely I look around when I’m on a mission. It … Read more
I chose to get on the carousel with my kids whilst every other parent stood round the outside watching. Did I know it was going to be quite so much ridiculous fun? No but it’s like flipping a coin. Getting on gives me possibility of both sides to land. Could be either, right? But stay … Read more
Crazy is being right too early. It’s catching the zeitgeist and saying ‘I know what’s coming’ and then doing it, long before anyone else gets it. It’s feeling so deeply that you know what to say next, even when everyone around you says ‘what the actual??’ I called my group ‘sisterhood’ in 2020 when I … Read more
