Belonging is vital. You crave it like a drug as a human ‘animal’. Tribe is how we survived as cave dwellers and your brain is still hard wired to belonging. Trouble is, we get it confused with ‘status’. And money. Why is that a TERRIBLE idea? Because. Wealth is more than income But status comes … Read more
🤨It’s so tempting to copy someone else. Doesn’t work in this market anymore. Why? Because your brain is beginning to evolve. ❓Notice how the bro marketing is slowly beginning to fade? The screaming of ‘look how much money I’ve made’ is dying down? ✨Newsflash. It’s because your clever brain is curious. It starts to ask … Read more
🛑Stop. Pause. Because: When you’re racing and driving and pushing… your masculine is in full dopamine reward mode, and you start to NEED the hit. You crave it like the hefty drug it is. And if you don’t get it through your ‘results’? You start doom scrolling🤯😣 That endless pull to refresh, that little meerkat … Read more
It took this mahoosive cheese truck to sloooow me down. When it dramatically and implacably blocks your vitesse, you suddenly have zero choice. I realised as I gazed around at the avenues of trees and the fields and fields of sunflowers of southern France, how rarely I look around when I’m on a mission. It … Read more
I chose to get on the carousel with my kids whilst every other parent stood round the outside watching. Did I know it was going to be quite so much ridiculous fun? No but it’s like flipping a coin. Getting on gives me possibility of both sides to land. Could be either, right? But stay … Read more
#surprisewin I’ve taken REPEATED actions to get to the business I run today obvs. But they don’t always look like you think they will. Your brain is more clever than you think, but do you trust it enough to go with your intuition?? My walk back from school is where I give myself time to … Read more
Crazy is being right too early. It’s catching the zeitgeist and saying ‘I know what’s coming’ and then doing it, long before anyone else gets it. It’s feeling so deeply that you know what to say next, even when everyone around you says ‘what the actual??’ I called my group ‘sisterhood’ in 2020 when I … Read more
❤️Beautiful people. I know many of you are proud owners of semi ferals like me. If you too are dealing with the hell that is this exam season, after 2yrs of disruption, then I did a thing for us today. I put together my top 3 exam revision tips in the form of some powerful … Read more
The story of ‘this’ horse running ‘this’ race should encourage us all to never give up: Rich Strike wins $1.86Million. Entered the race only the day before, and 30 seconds before the deadline. Only got in the race because the 20th horse had to scratch. Started from the worst post position on the outside of … Read more
Walked my girls to school in a vain attempt to start getting strong again. I like food way too much. I also love that tickle, that little frisson of the unknown, so on the way back I took a right turn into the cornfield where I should’ve gone left and stayed on the path. Just … Read more